Mishcon de Reya, a law firm in London, England, has completed a study in which 2000 parents and 2000 children involved in divorce were interviewed. According to the London Times, the findings were:
- one in three children permanently loses touch with a parent, usually the father, after the divorce.
- one in five parents said that their primary objective during separation was to make the experience as unpleasant as possible for their former spouse.
- one in five of the children said that they felt used by their parents.
- One in three of the children said they felt isolated and lonely.
- Half of parents said that they had been to court to fight over residential custody arrangements despite knowing it made matters worse for their children.
“The adversarial, blame-focused system is polarising parents and prevents them thinking forward about the long-term interests of their children,” says Sandra Davis, head of the family division at the law firm. “As a result the courts are drowning, trying to sort out what are fundamentally behavioural and family issues, with lawyers being drawn into disputes over what time a child is picked up from school.”