Postings on Facebook are turning up as Exhibit 1 in more and more custody battles. Although custody is supposed to be about best interests of the children, parties in conflict are more often than not inclined to try to show the other is a bad parent.
If you post your thoughts on Facebook, you may be giving the other side a roadmap for your case. Do you want your spouse and his or her counsel to know what you are thinking and what your strategy is?
If you make angry statements about your spouse, you may be stepping in wet concrete. The other side can use these statements in court to attack your credibility if you say something different. Or to show the judge what kind of person you are if the statements are unreasonable.
The solution is to keep this in mind. The first thing your spouse’s attorney will do after signing the retainer, is print out all your Facebook posts to use against you at trial.