We like things to stay the same.  Changes make us uncomfortable.

But ever since the Big Bang, change has been constant.  Everything changes.  The green grass turns brown and dies.  Glass breaks.  Cars break down.  We lose things.  The universe expands.

People change.  We grow older.  We have kids.  We have careers.  We acquire assets.  Agendas change.  We get divorced.

Divorce creates huge changes.  You never thought your life would turn out like this.  But it did.  The secret to dealing with change is acceptance.  Everything changes.  That is what we call life.