Entries by James J. Gross

You Can’t Come In

The controversy over ICE’s breaking into houses with an administrative or internal warrant not issued by a judge takes me back to Professor Hunvald’s criminal law class. It was my first year of law school. In order to write like a lawyer, you must learn to think like a lawyer. Law school teaches you how […]

How Not to Write Like a Lawyer

As a sign from the Universe that I should continue teaching you how to think and write like a lawyer, I received a letter from my health insurance carrier today. This is a perfect example of how NOT to write like a lawyer. My last post said you should always begin with this first sentence […]

Write Like a Lawyer: The Magic First Sentence

The purpose of this blog article is to give you some tips on how to begin to write like a lawyer. You don’t have to be a lawyer to write like one. In fact today’s tip will inform your business letters and even your regular social writing. It will clear the cobwebs and confusion away […]

Think Like a Lawyer

“I’ve attached a markup of your draft letter to my wife’s lawyers,” said the email from Mark to his lawyer. Matt, the lawyer, thought of his client as a great guy and a great client who pays his bills on time. He is intelligent and interesting. He is in the real estate business and very […]

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Divorce and Retirement Savings

In many divorce cases, the parties overlook the most valuable assets in their marital estate.  No, its not the house.  Retirement accounts are frequently one of the larger assets to be addressed as part of a divorce. Sometimes the account is through one spouse’s employer. Often, one spouse contributes directly through their payroll. When it […]

Divorce, Adversity and Depression

Divorce, adversity and depression often arrive together. Here are some thoughts to help. Depression is real. I know, I’ve had it.  I can tell you it’s like catching a cold. It hits you suddenly without warning and there’s no “snapping out it”.  You just have to wait for it to run its course or talk […]

The Three Phases of Divorce

I break a divorce into three phases. This approach helps clients know where they are in the divorce process, for timing and budgeting purposes. This breakdown also helps clients understand all of the components that can be expected in the divorce process. Phase 1: Initial Pleadings and Hearings This phase typically includes: Complaint Answer Counter-complaint […]