I read somewhere yesterday something that stuck in my mind. It said that you should resolve to love your children more than you hate your ex.
Divorce has a major impact on children. Parents in conflict usually have so many problems of their own, that they don’t think about it from the child’s point of view.
The National Network for Child Care has published online “Divorce Matters: A Child’s View”. The article has bullet points for what children understand, how they react and what parents can do for each age group, including infants, toddlers, preschoolers, elementary students, preteens and adolescents.